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A Day of Rest
After writing for 41 straight days, I’m taking a couple of days off. I have not written that much in a while, but it felt good. I have a few things to share about this Easter weekend, but it will have to wait.
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World Vision, Guiding Principles and the Problem with Trial Balloons
World’s Shortsighted Vision
In a move to widen its base and deepen its coffers, World Vision attempted to wade out into one of the most politically and socially charged issues of our time on Monday. The humanitarian organization known for helping starving and uneducated children all around the wold decided to allow “legally married” same-sex couples from the United States to work for the international organization. This decision kindled a quick and pointed response from several large evangelical denomination leaders. By yesterday (Wednesday) afternoon, World Vision had reversed course.

There are several issues I want to explore. The first is the initial announcement. Why did World Vision, an organization focused on humanitarian aid, decide to make this decision public? Hiring standards are not typically discussed outside of the human resources department of an organization. So, we must assume the purpose for this public move was to measure the response, both among the base supporters and non-supporters of World Vision. The reversal and the explanation now ring hollow because it is difficult to make a principled argument when your first attempt was pragmatic.
The second issue with this entire saga is connected with the reversal. I take exception to the “biblical jargon” bandied about now that the uproar has been heard. If Richard Stearn did not anticipate this response from the more conservative supporters of World Vision, then he has to be one of the most naive people on the planet at best. I say at best because the other option is that this was an intentional and calculated decision to see what would happen in the public arena (a trial balloon discussed below).
The argument that the policy was an attempt to stay neutral in the discussion is about as believable as the moon being made out of cheese! For an organization of this size, and for the leader of this organization who has access to other leaders on the world’s stage, not to have consulted with them prior to the announcement is disingenuous. I am not one to be overly critical, but any thinking person would have to recognize the dangers of swimming in these dangerous waters.
So, what does this second decision really mean? It means World vision has opened itself up for attack on at least two fronts. This sentiment is exactly what Mark Tooley from The American Spectator has pointed out.
There are reports that after Monday several thousand World Vision donors, out of a reported more than 400,000, threatened ending their support. There’s also an indication that work with overseas missions partners, working in traditional cultures, was imperiled. The later was probably more persuasive than the former, although both should have been anticipated before Monday. Ironically, Wednesday’s policy may cost World Vision far more dollars than Monday’s.
Angry LGBTQ groups and their allies, who previously were unfocused on World Vision’s internal policy, furiously now may target it for boycott, demanding that government and corporations halt funding. Liberal supporters of Monday’s policy angrily denounced Evangelicals withdrawing support, with one declaring: “It’s astounding to me that Christians would take food from starving children because a gay person might have helped in getting it there.” Will that same professed concern for starving children inhibit liberal demands for corporations and government to defund World Vision? [Source]
The lack of critical thinking and discernment in this decision is mind-boggling. This reality leads me to the next topic in this entire conversation, the issue of guiding principles. What are they and how do they work?
Guiding Principles
The reality of this situation for World Vision is that they have done irreparable damage to themselves. The purpose of guiding principles is to guide you through the decision making process and provide you with a redoubt when the attacks come. In this case, Stearns and World Vision should have taken more time consulting the scriptures rather than the tea leaves of culture. What has happened in the process is that they have lost their “True North.” The reason being, guiding principles must make sense and must be worth the fall out. If the decision made on Monday was one of conviction and principle then why make the change on Wednesday? When I read the following words attributed to Richard Stearns they rang hollow.
“The last couple of days have been painful,” president Richard Stearns told reporters this evening. “We feel pain and a broken heart for the confusion we caused for many friends who saw this policy change as a strong reversal of World Vision’s commitment to biblical authority, which it was not intended to be.”
“Rather than creating more unity [among Christians], we created more division, and that was not the intent,” said Stearns. “Our board acknowledged that the policy change we made was a mistake … and we believe that [World Vision supporters] helped us to see that with more clarity … and we’re asking you to forgive us for that mistake.”
“We listened to [our] friends, we listened to their counsel. They tried to point out in loving ways that the conduct policy change was simply not consistent … with the authority of Scripture and how we apply Scripture to our lives,” said Stearns. “We did inadequate consultation with our supporters. If I could have a do-over on one thing, I would have done much more consultation with Christian leaders.” [Source]
As a supposedly Christian organization, their primary concern should be what they interpret the Scriptures to say, not the supporters or the detractors. It simply does not make sense to me to make a decision like this and not have counted the cost (Luke 14:28ff). If this was a calculated decision, then there was a terrible miscalculation on the part of World Vision and the Board of Directors.
The Problem of Trial Balloons
Wikipedia defines a trial balloon as follows: “A trial balloon is information sent out to the media in order to observe the reaction of an audience. It can be used by companies sending out press releases to judge reaction by customers….” It appears, on this side of the events of the last several days, this is exactly what World Vision did. Rather than doing surveys, focus groups or any number of tactics to gauge the response of this decision, World Vision decided to use the most public and volatile option. Even if they anticipated this reaction (which I highly doubt), World Vision has chosen the secular model of operating rather than the spiritual.
It seems this is the danger of organizations and individuals whose spotlight grows too large. The desire to create a “big tent” is foolish. This is not the way Christians and Christian organizations should make decisions. World Vision’s credibility and integrity is now in question. And they have hurt themselves because of their own choices. The lack of discernment in making this decision and then the reversal after the criticism is evidence of a lack of conviction. I would feel bad for World Vision if I felt this was an honest mistake. However, I don’t. I feel bad for the thousands of children who will be affected as support for World Vision wanes in the aftermath.
My hope is that Richard Stearns, the board of directors and World Vision would seek the God kind of wisdom we all need to navigate the ocean of life. Especially life in the public arena.
Video Spotlight | “In Christ Alone” by Christina Grimmie
Reduced to one word
Several years ago I came across an interesting quote by George Orwell. In his book 1984, he remarked that the trend would be to control the use of language to such a degree that communication would be come rigid and constricted. I am not sure that Mr. Orwell had Facebook in mind when he wrote the book, but there is an ironic twist here worth thinking about.

Let me know what you think. I would love to know how this hits you!
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Refocus, Reboot, Relax
The Gospel changes everything (or at least it ought to). My hope and desire is to try and make sense of how this happens in our lives, beginning with mine.
It has been almost a year since I have written anything here on The Reformed Wesleyan (TRW). That has been a long time. I can’t say why I stopped writing and posting. I may have needed a break. Or it just could have been that I didn’t make the time to put my thoughts down. Well, I hope to change that.
This past January I changed jobs. I began serving Ambassadors of Christ Ministries as the Executive pastor for Ministry Development and Discipleship. That is a whole lot of title that says I am helping the church become more efficient and effective. I can honestly say that I am having a great time working at the church, and especially working with my dad (who is the senior pastor!).
Refocus
As I have been thinking about what to do with this blog I have decided to make a shift in the emphasis. The tag line used to be “Too Reformed to be Arminian, To Arminian to be Reformed.” This was a playful way of saying that my theology can’t be put in a simple box. I am still working out what I have discovered and am discovering in God’s word.
The Gospel changes everything (or at least it ought to).
I, however, want to change what we do here at TRW to focus on what is most important to God and to me, the Gospel. I will use this forum to share what I am learning and living as it relates to the Good News of Jesus of Nazareth. That is why the tag line is now “Exploring the Gospel’s Implications”. The Gospel changes everything (or at least it ought to). My hope and desire is to try and make sense of how this happens in our lives, beginning with mine.
Reboot
The title of this blog is also “tongue-in-cheek”. That will not change. I will continue to use this idea as an expression of finding my way on this theological journey as best as I can–hopefully with your help as well. I love conversation and I hope to engage in more conversations in the days, weeks, months and years to come. If any of you reading this blog are looking for a place to engage and explore what it means to be a follower of Jesus, I hope you have found that place here.
Relax
Finally, I think that I need to take myself less seriously. I write because it helps me to process what I am learning and what God is teaching. I don’t want this to be something that I have to do because somebody will read it. Life and faith are a journey. I would love to travel with others, but during these travels I want to make sure I enjoy the trip as well. Life is far too short to just keep missing out on what God has given us to enjoy.
So, for those who may be reading this, “Thank you!” And I look forward to what God has in store for me and us.
It has been a while…

It has been a while since I wrote anything for the site. I had too many irons in the fire. Or put another way, too many distractions. It happens to everybody I guess. So many good opportunities to get involved with. So many new and exciting things to learn and try out. I am no different. I remember something my pastor said a while back, “We can get so lost in good things that we can miss the God things.”
I don’t think I was missing the God things. I was just fascinated by the good things. That can be so frustrating. If its good, then why is it bad? I think that’s the problem. The things that looks so good are not bad. They truly are good. What happens is that it may not be good for me at this particular moment in the journey. And, it’s telling the difference that gets hard.
We all have to take some time and evaluate what we are taking time for and investing into. I’ve heard the only resource you don’t get more of is time. We have to use our time as best we can. My hope is to get back in the swing of things around here. To take time and invest into and use the gifts God has given to me.
Thanks for your patience!
Am I The Only Parent…
Am I the only parent who watches his children breathing while they sleep? There is a tranquility in watching them sleep. Other than the obvious reason that they are not screaming and running around wrecking the place!
But, I digress.
Every night before I turn out the lights and enter my own time of blissful slumber I check on my girls. I look at their faces and I watch the miracle of their autonomous systems filling and deflating their lungs. The rhythmic rising and falling, over and over again. I watch several cycles before I move from one room to the next and finally to bed.
I am stunned by how this never gets old. I have been watching them breath from the moment they entered into this world. It’s something that struck me again recently when my new nephew was born. The memory of my role of accompanying these new bundles of joy (and responsibility) from the operating room to the nursery is with me even now. It was my job to maintain the continuity of possession of these children. And what did I watch? I watched their little chests move up and down. Up and down.
I love being a daddy. Of all the jobs I have ever had or will ever have, this has been my favorite and the most disturbing. I have never been so ill-prepared or ill-equipped in my life. However, the on-the-job training has by and far exceeded my expectations. Becoming a parent is not something that you can prepare for. Parenting is the gift of God to those foolhardy enough to risk loving someone more than themselves.
My prayer is to have the wisdom to know when I am taking this great gift for granted. But, if I don’t have that wisdom within myself I hope I have the sense to listen to my wife when she points it out!
The Lingering Effect of Death’s Assault
In Memory of
Jacob Carlyle Davis

August 20, 1986 – December 28, 2010
Two years ago my family experienced one of the most devastating events we had ever faced. Two years ago my brother-in-law died in a car accident. The “facts” of what happened simply do not have the ability to communicate the emotions that I feel this morning as I remember him and how much I miss him. His mom and sister (my wife) feel a different kind of pain. Their knowledge of him was intimate, personal and began from before Jacob entered into the world. When I met him, Jacob didn’t even know who he wanted to be. He didn’t know that he was supposed to become anything. He was a chubby kid struggling to make sense of the inhumanity of middle schoolers. I knew Jacob for more than half of his life. I think that’s what hurts the most. There is no more time for us.
I know what I believe about death. As a follower of Jesus I know Jacob is with our Savior. I know. I know Jacob loved Jesus and never missed an opportunity to share this with those around him. I know he loved helping others get over what ailed them. He was good at that. But, he is no here to help me! He is gone and I miss him.
All of the cute things that we say sometimes really don’t help. “He lives on in our memories.” Yeah, well memories have a tendency to fade. “His love will carry you through.” OK, thanks but, I’d rather feel the warm embrace rather than the cold recollection of a time gone by.
I woke up this morning and saw some of the comments of those who loved Jacob as they remembered him. I was overwhelmed by the flood of emotion that I felt as I read them. I have heard that the depth of our pain is a reflection of the love we had/have for those now gone. I guess I loved/love him more than I realized. This is the realization I didn’t expect.
Two years, and I still feel the lingering effect of death’s assault on my heart. Jacob may not have been my flesh and blood, but we were family. I have come to realize that I still miss him and that will be OK. There is no expiration date on love. For this I am grateful.
Previous Reflections
Google Reader Round-up | December 15, 2012
Several months ago I started the idea of putting together a list of links that I found interesting throughout each week. I am going to take it up again.
In this week’s Round-up:
In light of the tragedy in Newtown, CT, here are some responses from pastors, theologians and other public Christians that I have come across.
I do not endorse all of the views of these authors. I submit them as helpful responses to the tragic and dastardly acts committed yesterday.
From John Piper
Pastor for Preaching and Vision, Bethlehem Baptist Church
From Justin Holcomb
Executive Director, The Resurgence
From Al Mohler
President, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
From Jen Wilkin
Contributor, The Gospel Coalition
From Ben Godson
Blogger, Covered in the Master’s Dust
From “The Jungle Missionary”
Blogger, Defending/Contending.com
From Victor Scott
Blogger, The Reformed Wesleyan (Original Source)
UPDATED: December 15, 2012, 1:06 pm
From Russell Moore
Dean of the School of Theology, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
Senior Vice President for Academic Administration, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
